How many times have you felt there wasn't enough of you
to go around? How often have you wished the days were just three hours longer?
I'm betting more times, than you care to admit.
With the responsibilities of a job, family, friends, and
writing [not necessarily in that order], creativity or in my case, blog posts
may suffer. This is how taking a page from my own book, re-purposing the
concept behind Scrivener's format, and a little more research, helped me.
The situation: You're way behind on all your commitments.
You're domestic chores haven't been done, you haven't called your family, or your
friends in ages, and your child needs you bake two dozen cookies for their class; plus,
your boss has been on your case to complete his project.
Then, there's your
story. Your passion, your escape, your secret love. It has sat neglected all
week. You feel guilty.
You’re nodding. Yep, been there, done that, got the
t-shirt; but how are you to meet all your obligations, and have time to devote
to your writing?
It's a matter of priority and perspective. Everyone's
read how you should write every day; it’s a tall order when you take into
consideration responsibilities of life. After all, there are just so many hours
in a day, and sleep is necessary.
Set priorities to be done in smaller chunks. Sounds
straightforward enough, but it takes a close look at what is a priority in
your reality. For me vacuuming is a loathsome chore, so it's a no-brainer - it
goes to the bottom of my list. My family and friends know I'm not ignoring them when I contact them once a week; they understand it's what I can manage. As for keeping your boss happy; it depends if you
want, or need, to keep your job.
With regard to writing, I've read countless articles,
which state, you must write every day. For many, this isn't practical. In
my research for a better way to manage my writing and fit in 7 hours of sleep,
I came across several comments from some NY Times best-selling authors who
admit they don't write every day, but they make sure to read every day.
These authors continue to study the craft, and think about their
stories. Their advice - write regularly; whether
this is every weekend, thirty minutes a day, or two to three times a week. Also, don't look at the entire project and try to tackle it that way; it can be
too intimidating, which causes some writers to abandon their manuscripts.
Work in smaller chunks [this is where Scrivener's concept
comes in]. You keep at it because it’s manageable, and not the monster it
initially appeared to be. I’ve applied this to my entire life, focusing on
smaller blocks; eventually it all gets done, it may take a little longer, but
nothing is abandoned and the stress/guilt factor is reduced. It's a
win-win.
Happy writing ~